The Jury Rules
Family & In-Laws
Holidays, parenting, and the relatives you can't choose.
- Whose family do you spend the holidays with?4–1VerdictAlternate on a plan agreed in advance — and stop treating it as a yearly contest to win.
- Are you obligated to lend money to family?4–1VerdictObligated, no. Free to, yes — but only ever what you can afford to never see again.
- Do grandparents have to follow your parenting rules?4–1VerdictYes — your house, your rules, their job to honor them. But pick the rules that actually matter.